Learn to listen to transgender people. Many shemales are not understood by the rest of the world, which results in their very low status in this society. Because the number of people in our community is so small, there is no complete law on transgender people. As a result, transgender people can only enjoy a small part of the rights. As a result, they will always suffer more than ordinary people.
If you are a person who really likes transgender people, then you should get along with each other on a principle of equality. And you should also learn to listen to the truth in transgender people. If you always assume that transgender people are a group of people with gender identity disorder, that they are a group of people with mental problems, then you can't really walk into their inner world. So you can listen when you don't know a shemale. When you are an unbiased listener, you can gain a more objective understanding of a potential transgender hookup partner.
Here's the second big no-no when it comes to dealing with your transgender hookup partner: don't ask for your transgender girlfriend's real name. Most of them will choose to use a name they like instead of the one their parents gave them as adults. For them, the association with their birth name is a source of great anxiety. It was part of their past. For many of them, they prefer you to call them by their chosen name. If you want to gain the trust of your lgbt dating partner, you'd better respect the names transgender people currently use. Don't call someone's name before they became a transgender person without asking their permission. Because it will only remind the other person of his past life. Likewise, don't share photos of your trans gender hookup partner before they became a transgender person until they're approved. Because this is the other person's privacy, you have no right to make fun of other people's privacy.
Don't guess the dating history and gender history of the trans gender hookup partner you met on the ts dating app. Because it's also about privacy. Some people will be willing to share their dating history with you, while others won't. These personal information about them, they have the right to tell others and the right not to tell others. If they tell you something about their history, learn to keep it to yourself instead of sharing it with others, as well as your own speculation or gossip. Because it hurts us as transgender women. This is not only an invasion of privacy, it can also seriously undermine our trust in you, which can have a negative impact on the relationship between two people.